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Twin Flame Missions and the Truth of Divine Love
Your mission is your energetic frequency
When I was first told, in 2021, that a deceased ex-boyfriend of mine was my twin flame, the shamanic healer who told me this said: “His mission was a total fail.”
I was very new to the concept of twin flames, spiritual ascension and the idea of being a soul who had come to Earth with a “mission.”
It was a lot to get my head around. After receiving this piece of information, my life began to change as I scoured the internet for wisdom and teachings related to the twin flame journey, which I discovered is fundamentally a means of triggering a spiritual awakening.
I developed all kinds of mental frameworks to help make sense of and understand what had taken place. I tried to grapple with how, exactly, my “twin flame” had come to “fail” his “mission.”
At one point, I saw my twin flame and I as having come to Earth school as fellow students doing a joint project together. I saw him as the “slacker” who had not contributed in any way to our group project. I saw him as having been kicked out of Earth school for burdening me with all the work.
It may sound harsh, but this perspective certainly aligned with some of what my shaman told me. She said, “There had to be an exit for him,” once he had passed a certain point of no return with the choices he had made.
She told me he had been “taking up space” in our shared consciousness, and that it had been causing unhelpful energetic blockages and burdens for me. She said, “He was never going to do the work.”
By “work,” she meant inner work, i.e. emotional healing and spiritual awakening. She was basically saying that if he would have stayed alive, he would have stayed spiritually “asleep,” and I’d have had a much harder time with my own healing and awakening journey. It would have been like walking around with an energetic ball and chain for the rest of my life.
I couldn’t really say I disagreed with her seemingly harsh assessments. Since he and I had broken up in 2011, I had done nothing but grow, heal, develop and work on myself. And not in small ways; in monumental ways. I had healed myself from a personality disorder and manifested a…