The Karmic Revelation

The biggest mystery I have solved so far in my twin flame journey

Andrea Herman
34 min readSep 2, 2024
Photo by Luke Jones on Unsplash

When you try to make a slave of love, you do nothing but create a beast.

After my twin flame and I broke up in July of 2011, I became consumed with anxiety-ridden speculation over who he was going to date next, and how quickly he was going to replace me with another woman.

I knew instinctively that it was in his nature to start mining his social network for a new girlfriend even before he ended things with me. So it became a guessing game as to which of his ex-girlfriends, current friends or new acquaintances might “suddenly” surface as his new love interest in the coming weeks and months.

It became a constant source of torment for me to wonder which of these women possessed whatever it was he had found missing in me, and I made myself sick trying to figure out what that “missing piece” might be. I would have given anything for a clear, direct, honest answer.

My therapist at the time counselled me not to actively seek out the identity of any new potential love interest of his. She knew me well enough to know that if I wanted to, I had the investigative wherewithal to get to the very bottom of this mystery — if, of course, I was willing to put myself…

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